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Bill Mountjoy

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Abusive | Narcissistic | Freeloading | Conman

Abusive | Narcissistic | Freeloading | ConmanAbusive | Narcissistic | Freeloading | ConmanAbusive | Narcissistic | Freeloading | Conman

Index

Part II: Class of '97

From the age of 18-23, I was able-bodied and attending college. (Written in 2022)

Finger Painting

16

I move to Savannah, GA to attend art school; Bill discovers the tuition bill among DeNese's papers and firmly insists that not one more cent be thrown away on my "finger painting."

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Lot Aquisition

17

Bill and DeNese purchase a waterfront lot in Lorton, VA although DeNese has no intention of building on the property. 

Jaguar XJS

18

Bill drags me up a flight of stairs by my hair as I hide the keys to DeNese's Jaguar XJS - a symbol of her dreams for freedom.

Prison Break - Attempt 3

19

DeNese and I come up with another plan for her to escape Bill.

The "Red Rocket" and Other Swindles

20

Through the purchase of cars, boats, and motorcycles, Bill cheats DeNese out of a half a million dollars.

Patio Furniture

22

In a jealous rage, Bill chases me through the backyard with an aluminum lounge chair.

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Construction

23

On Bill's relentless insistence, DeNese liquidates most of her real estate assets to enable construction of a waterfront home on the Potomac. 

Prison Break - Attempt 4

24

Still hoping to break free, DeNese's uses her company to obtain a condo and moves her pets and belongings; although she can see the light at the end of the tunnel this time, poor construction results in the need to evacuate as the building requires large-scale renovations.

Part II: Class of '97

From the age of 18-23, I was able-bodied and attending college. (Written in 2022)

Finger Painting

16

I move to Savannah, GA to attend art school; Bill discovers the tuition bill among DeNese's papers and firmly insists that not one more cent be thrown away on my "finger painting."

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Lot Aquisition

17

Bill and DeNese purchase a waterfront lot in Lorton, VA although DeNese has no intention of building on the property. 

Jaguar XJS

18

Bill drags me up a flight of stairs by my hair as I hide the keys to DeNese's Jaguar XJS - a symbol of her dreams for freedom.

Prison Break - Attempt 3

19

DeNese and I come up with another plan for her to escape Bill.

The "Red Rocket" and Other Swindles

20

Through the purchase of cars, boats, and motorcycles, Bill cheats DeNese out of a half a million dollars.

Patio Furniture

22

In a jealous rage, Bill chases me through the backyard with an aluminum lounge chair.

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Construction

23

On Bill's relentless insistence, DeNese liquidates most of her real estate assets to enable construction of a waterfront home on the Potomac. 

Prison Break - Attempt 4

24

Still hoping to break free, DeNese's uses her company to obtain a condo and moves her pets and belongings; although she can see the light at the end of the tunnel this time, poor construction results in the need to evacuate as the building requires large-scale renovations.

Part II: Class of '97

From the age of 18-23, I was able-bodied and attending college. (Written in 2022)

Finger Painting

16

I move to Savannah, GA to attend art school; Bill discovers the tuition bill among DeNese's papers and firmly insists that not one more cent be thrown away on my "finger painting."

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Lot Aquisition

17

Bill and DeNese purchase a waterfront lot in Lorton, VA although DeNese has no intention of building on the property. 

Jaguar XJS

18

Bill drags me up a flight of stairs by my hair as I hide the keys to DeNese's Jaguar XJS - a symbol of her dreams for freedom.

Prison Break - Attempt 3

19

DeNese and I come up with another plan for her to escape Bill.

The "Red Rocket" and Other Swindles

20

Through the purchase of cars, boats, and motorcycles, Bill cheats DeNese out of a half a million dollars.

Patio Furniture

22

In a jealous rage, Bill chases me through the backyard with an aluminum lounge chair.

Stone Manor on the Potomac - Construction

23

On Bill's relentless insistence, DeNese liquidates most of her real estate assets to enable construction of a waterfront home on the Potomac. 

Prison Break - Attempt 4

24

Still hoping to break free, DeNese's uses her company to obtain a condo and moves her pets and belongings; although she can see the light at the end of the tunnel this time, poor construction results in the need to evacuate as the building requires large-scale renovations.

Part III: Present Day

2020-2022

Glorified Camping

25

When the pandemic hits, we are living in the Vienna home in dreadful conditions; although the home is spacious, decades of neglect have left it borderline uninhabitable.

Real Estate 101

26

Bill's claim that DeNese is financially secure with her remaining real estate investments is a stretch of the imagination but, even if she was, it's not justification for his theft.

Father Knows Best

27

Once in a while people ask if Bill's my biological father or just assume he isn't but I don't think paternity matters.  Bill's behavior is reprehensible and cannot be justified by claiming he is not my father.

Little Blue Pen

28

Our lives dramatically change on the first week of November 2020. The Presidential Election is on Tuesday, Bill returns to Northern Virginia on Wednesday, and by Friday DeNese is in the hospital.

Theory of the Crime

29

Bill claims he came into the house and discovered my mother on the floor.  DeNese says Bill beat her.  I wasn't there, but all the evidence seems to correspond to DeNese's version of events.

There is No Happy Ending

30

My mother's hospitalization is followed by 6 weeks in of inpatient rehabilitation; BIll is relentless despite being asked to leave us alone.

True Colors

31

Our friends and neighbors in Vienna repeatedly come to our aid while many of DeNese's friends and neighbors are perfectly content to not just look the other way but also actively contribute to the problems.

Just Like Fire

32

Without her records, my efforts to rebuild DeNese's life become quite the undertaking.

Mother-load

33

Aside from a brief police escort some five months later, DeNese is unable to return to her house in Lorton, VA.  Bill takes advantage the situation he created for his biggest con yet - the partition for sale of her home in Lorton and the Vienna home where we are living.

Arrest Report

34

Bill is charged with one misdemeanor and one felony.

Under Contract

35

We drop everything and rush out the door each time there's a potential for a new place to live.

Speechless

36

There's a frequent assumption that DeNese's expressive aphasia equates to ignorance; it's quite the opposite.

Financials - Vienna

A1

When purchased, DeNese diligently paid both her mortgage on the home and a second - taken out in Bill's name.  When we moved from the home, Bill kept 100% of the rent for 15+ years while the property deteriorated.  Nevertheless, Bill forced sale of the home when (if their had been a third-party accounting) it would show that Bill would have to pay DeNese over a half a million dollars just for her to break even.

IV: Fast Forward

My Mother's Lifetime of Possessions

Filing a False Report

37

Over two decades ago, a tumultuous and dramatic break-up lead to my arrest; although the charges were dismissed, Bill often tries to control and blackmail me with this unfortunate incident.

Buyer Beware- The Stone Manor on the Potomac HOA

38

The Good Ol' Boys network (otherwise known as the Board of the Stone Manor HOA) actively enables domestic violence by denying a resident ingress/egress to their own property.  How does one enjoy the gorgeous waterfront views when life is consumed with keeping your head down?  

O Christmas Tree (Updated)

39

There is often an assumption that domestic violence only occurs in low-income households.  This "rescinded invitation" illustrates the 'out of sight, out of mind' culture that kept DeNese trapped while living in the affluent waterfront community of Stone Manor on the Potomac.

Toxic Masculinity

41

In 2021, a judge determined we would refer to Bill Mountjoy as my "father figure."  If we were 'family' at all, Bill would be better described as my juvenile delinquent brother. 

Son-of-a-Bitch Priorities

43

If life with Bill was not an imprisoned existence where DeNese was in constant fear of her life, she could have told that entitled, ungrateful, self-centered son-of-a-bitch his priorities were misaligned.

Climate-Controlled Storage

44

I'm a half-way decent writer but I'm not creative enough to make this up. Bill couldn't even turn on the air conditioner or call an exterminator - for four years.

Pottymouth

45

There's an estate-wide toilet paper shortage getting in the way of DeNese maintaining some semblance of dignity during our "walk of shame" at Stone Manor; Bill is petty, childish, and barbaric - but all that takes a backseat to being the stingiest SOB on this side of the Potomac.

Housing Instability & Mental Health

46

For Bill, theft is like taking candy from a baby.  As a result of the loss of our home, my seven year old child is absolutely traumatized.  

Lose Yourself

52

No sensible, reasonable, emotionally mature adult would go out and slaughter the Thanksgiving Turkey immediately before a Presidential Pardon of that very bird.  And, yet, that's exactly the type of strategic life choice Bill Mountjoy made when he choose my humiliation over an extremely favorable settlement.

Happy New Year

53

Bill Mountjoy cancelled my health insurance.  The bigger problem, though, is that he didn't even bother to try to notify me that I would no longer have coverage so I could act accordingly, put other plans into place, and still get my much-needed surgery - as scheduled.

Neglect

54

Adult Protective Services showed up at our doorstep in June 2023. We later learn that I'm under investigation as the "alleged perpetrator" of neglect against DeNese. 

Part V: Exposed

Shining a light on the most heinous acts of Bill Mountjoy and his enablers

Pseudocyesis (Fake Pregnancy)

55

Bill and his older brother, Johnny, bring significant distress into my life with an absurd fabrication - telling anyone who will listen that I am faking my pregnancy.

Lipstick on a Pig

57

Bill Mountjoy was never CIO of the American Federation of Labor; I doubt he was even a CPA.  Bill unwillingly 'retired' from the AFL-CIO yet he continues to insist he was among the highest ranks of the union federation.  DeNese had spent a lifetime building Bill up - sacrificing her own reputation to bring a farm animal indoors.

Combat Injuries

60

The court-ordered "wheelchair accessible" access to DeNese's home in August 2025 turned out to be so inaccessible that I sustained significant injuries and ended up hospitalized.

Misdiagnosed

63

Bill Mountjoy has a diagnosis of ADHD, yet it doesn't quite add up.

Howl

64

Bill's mother, Dolores, declares that I'm not part of the family because she insists I am adopted.  I decide to pull myself out of the never-ending toxicity; the Mountjoy clan is convinced my refusal to pretend things are perfect means I'm the problem.

Hebrew Elephant in the Room

65

Friends and family often feel compelled to take sides; when abuse is involved, either you take a stand against it or you're okay with ignoring it.  Bill Mountjoy declared himself Emperor and one of his relatives points out that he's not wearing clothes.

Perjury, Part 1

66

Bill Mountjoy stole my home from DeNese.  In August of 2024, we were finally able to access her belongings.  Cancelled checks and related documents tremendously conflict with what was said and presented in this the partition lawsuit that resulted in substantial verdicts in his favor.

Constant and Continuing

69

DeNese's text messages confirm that Bill's narcissistic abuse wasn't anything new.

Part VI: Howdy Neighbor

Steve and Antoinette Potter, at 400 Roland St SW, team up with Bill Mountjoy

Wacko Neighbors: Steve & Toni Potter (Part 1)

70

My yard doesn't look to hot, but that can be fixed.  What is downright unsightly and has proven to be a permanent fixture is the behavior next door - Steve and Toni Potter (Bill Mountjoy's new best friends.)

Baby's 1st Trauma: Steve & Toni Potter (Part 2)

71

The tension with Steve and Toni Potter goes way back; one of the most disturbing incidents was the time Steve aimed his overpriced gas powered leaf blower right at the open bedroom window where my newborn infant lay soundly sleeping.  

Stalking-by-Proxy: Steve & Toni Potter (Part 3)

72

During my eviction trial, I learned that my next-door neighbors, Steve and Toni Potter were stalking-by-proxy for Bill Mountoy.

Assumptions of Nosy Neighbors: Steve & Toni Potter (Part 4)

73

...

Part VII: Reflections

Shining a light on the most heinous acts of Bill Mountjoy and his enablers

Slow down, you crazy child

75

Hacking  into Bill's email, I uncover multiple affairs.  When DeNese confronts  Bill, he becomes so livid that a neighbor suggests we sleep with a knife  under our pillow.  Bill struck DeNese so hard he broke his own finger in the process.   Fearing not just her life but mine as well, DeNese obtains an emergency  protective order.

Prince William County Public Schools

76

Bill Mountjoy used a pseudonym, Bill Barnes, to have an affair with, Mrs. Julia Smith, a married third grade teacher at Prince William County's Bennett Elementary School in Manassas.   

Nursery Rhymes

77

Bill attempts another fling; he struck out but the April 2003 date conflicts with his historical revisionism.

Pound Puppies

78

Bill reaches a new low when he evicted me and my seven year old daughter while I was in the hospital.  We lost the majority of our belongings as well - including her beloved collection of Pound Puppies.

Alias

79

Bill claims DeNese and I change our names at the drop of a hat yet he's the one who uses aliases to avoid accountability and defraud others. 

Wining & Dining

80

Bill prefers to be around people that enable, ignore, and encourage his behavior.  Therefore, it's no surprise that, as the Director of IT at the AFL-CIO, Bill's close "friends" were not his colleagues, but rather the vendors.  

Roses are Red

81

Bill repeatedly flirts with his "smokin' hot" second cousin, Tammy.  Her mom Rosie, has narcissistic tendencies that are strikingly similar to Bill.

The Blame Game

82

Bill blames me for my spinal cord injury because blame-shifting, victimization, and gaslighting are a family tradition in the Mountjoy cult.

Murder-for-Hire

83

There is a decade-old unsolved murder in Lorton, VA.  Bill benefits from neighbors and friends believing I hired a hitman - who shot the wrong guy.

He said, she said

84

Sexual violence among young woman is alarmingly high during their undergraduate college years.  When I joined those statistics, Bill's only interest was to use the brutal incident to threaten me.

Academic Probation

85

When I was in college, Bill's number one priority was to make sure I was financially independent so he could continue to sponge off my mother without competition.  The aftermath of rape caused my grades to decline; Bill took advantage of my misfortune to further degrade and bully me.

Hush, Little Baby

86

Bill claims my mother has repeatedly come to my aid in ways that are both lavish and false.  The reality is that the bulk of DeNese's money went to Bill.

Baby, It's Cold Outside

87

On April 16, 2025, DeNese inadvertently ran into Bill Mountjoy. Enabled by his family, Bill rewrote the narrative to claim she departed because it was cold - instead of avoiding him. 

Kicking Up Mud

88

Bill Mountjoy takes frugality to the extreme - negatively impacting the quality of life of those around him with his unhygienic routines.

Well That Sucks

90

While Bill always required the best (paid for by DeNese) I was told I didn't really need basics for my everyday life.  I have been actively trying to change learned behaviors that I developed as a child as coping mechanisms from Bill's financial abuse.  

Emergency Contact

92

Bill routinely "poisons the well" by going out of his way to damage my reputation - even when it's not necessary.  When Bill is asked for his emergency contact information, he gives my name and number.  He jokes that if anything were to happen to him, I would need to know so I could celebrate.

I Stand Corrected

94

Previously, I've said that Bill hasn't had any real friends in over two decades; I was wrong - and it turns out one of the most upstanding and genuine pals in his life was an initial resident of Stone Manor on the Potomac.

Home Court Advantage

97

Bill Mountjoy routinely brands me as a troublemaker and even when he goes so far as to claim (without evidence) that I have four serious personality disorders - he's assumed to be telling the truth because he's my "parent". 

Cherry-Picking

98

Experts advise those in narcissist relationships to never label the narcissist - as, they will simply turn around and accuse their victim of being a narcissist.  Bill Mountjoy doesn't skip a beat and - straight from the horse's mouth - we can read exactly what negative and false allegations Bill Mountjoy has to share about me.

Blue-collared Disdain

99

While Bill Mountjoy worked for SEIU and the AFL-CIO, he did so as a "closet Republican" who considered blue-collared workers beneath him.  Despite a lack of genuine achievements, Bill truly believes he's better than everyone else and he devalues others to elevate his own importance.

99 Bottles of Beer on the Wall

100

With 99 posts over the past 3 years, a timeline puts it into perspective. 

Billy Burbs

101

DeNese and I use various terms of endearment for each other; one in particular came to an abrupt halt when Bill Mountjoy decided he wanted one too - like a prison guard that expects to have a warmhearted relationship with the inmates 

Disability Card

102

Bill Mountjoy is so clueless about the reality of my life that he thinks I use my disability as a get out of jail free pass.

Thinking about You

103

Bill Mountjoy is the one that used my disability and ongoing medical conditions for attention from others; one of his main frustrations about being estranged is no longer having access to information about my daily life.

Dishonest Harmony

104

In the Mountjoy family cult,  no one speaks directly to another individual about their problems with that person... instead, they talk about them to other members in the family. 

Scarydale

106

Pinocchio

108

I grew up believing Bill Mountjoy was my biological father - despite him convincing his family I was adopted.  The size of Bill Mountjoy's penis pales in comparison to the real grower - his Pinocchio nose.  When caught in a lie, Bill will deny, deflect, devalue, or dismiss. When that doesn't work, he becomes angry and aggressive. 

Back to School

110

When my daughter is so focused on the insecurity of not having immediate basic needs met, she can't dedicate energy to learning  much of anything in school - regardless of whether that requires  scribbling on paper to get a dried-out pen to work again.  The long-term consequences of what Bill Mountjoy did to our family will be  catastrophic for her. 

Autoimmune

111

Severe emotional stress often acts as a catalyst for autoimmune conditions.  I don't deny that DNA is a factor.  However, I don’t think it’s a coincidence that both my daughter and I developed autoimmune conditions during this onslaught from Bill Mountjoy.  

Downsizing

112

While DeNese's home on the Potomac, 11195 Gunston Road, sat on the market for $6,250,000,  she was down the street hoping to perhaps get assistance to purchase a  humble 400 square foot one bed/bath sliver of real estate listed at less  than 5% of that price.   

Multiple Choice

113

While doing absolutely nothing to help with my paralysis, Bill Mountjoy used my disability to "score" with women - claiming he couldn't leave his "wife" (DeNese) because of the burden of my care.

American Peckerwood

114

When I was a child, Bill Mountjoy expressed his contempt for black men by using the n-word.  Today, he's replaced that with "Negro" - as if being "politically correct" is a colossal improvement  to his underlying racism.

Touchdown

115

Bill Mountjoy has a "token black friend" - former professoinal football player Dexter Manley - but that doesn't mean Bill and his immediate family are any less racist.  

Capitol Riot

117

Bill Mountjoy claims I fabricated my (notarized) lease for 402 Roland St SW - forcing DeNese to sign it after the Partition judgement.

Skin Check

118

Bill Mountjoy photographed wounds surrounding my genitals to share with others.  The psychological ramifications of his treatment have caused me to struggle in obtaining much-needed medical care.

Disability Tax

119

Bill Mountjoy claims it's okay to steal from DeNese because she has plenty; what DeNese and I both have are plenty of additional expenses related to our medical needs.

Full-Time Job

120

When told Bill Mountjoy's attorney that my disability was a full-time job., he had an expression on his face that seemed to convey he felt it was me, rather than his client, that was full of Billsh*t.   

Back to the Future Part 2

125

Bill Mountjoy claims his dozens of sexual liasons are justified by a single affair DeNese may or may not have had - yet he didn't know about until 15 years later.

Back to the Future Part 3

126

Bill Mountjoy insists I only claimed my mother was assaulted because he was going to take our home; if anything, the reverse is true.

Aging Gracefully

127

My body ages faster than it would otherwise (and the lack of accessibility due to Bill Mountjoy certainly hasn't helped) ;in observance of September as Spinal Cord injury awareness month, I discuss the impact neurogenic accelerating aging (NAA) has had on me.

Fuck Around and Find Out

129

When Bill Mountjoy is told he is a disgusting excuse for a human being, he considers it a threat - that is, a "threat" to his ego and delusions.

If Anything Happens to Me

TBD

While Bill Mountjoy managed to make a positive impression in court, further examination of the evidence exposes his lies.

Credibility

TBD

While Bill Mountjoy managed to make a positive impression in court, further examination of the evidence exposes his lies.

Doorbell

TBD

Bill proceeds to make himself look more guilty everyday while one subpoena after another is taped to our door.

Days of Our Lives

TBD

Although I need a caregiver for my disability and ongoing medical issues, I find myself trapped as caregiver to everyone else.  I never thought life could be this hard.  We work around the clock because, if we stop, everything collapses.

Helpless

TBD

At age 4, my daughter lays in the pediatric ICU - unresponsive and battling hypothermia and infection.  Bill decides to prolong her suffering - just because he can.

End of the Road

TBD

DeNese's teaching career is pretty much all she has left of her former life; a year and a half later that is gone as well.

Baldwin

TBD

It wasn't a fair fight from the start, but a dispute over poor legal advice leaves us stranded.

Financials - Lorton

A2

DeNese contributed the vast majority of the funding to this home as well.

Grand Finale

Closing Thoughts and Reflections

The Saudi "Fixer"

TBD

In 2014, DeNese met a 29-year-old attorney, Bader Nasser Alomair, and was pulled into the inner workings of the Embassy of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.

Dishwasher

TBD

DeNese's childhood in the Florida panhandle was far from idyllic.

Swampland

TBD

Bill Mountjoy ramps up his harassment over vacant land my mother purchased in Florida back in 1989.

I Have a Dream

TBD

As a teenager, DeNese left her home in a heavily segregated Pensacola, Florida to come to DC at a pivotal time in the Civil Rights movement.  In the midst of complete chaos, I recently stumbled upon the significance of this on her life.

This blog depicts actual events in the life of Shelley Mountjoy as truthfully as recollection permits.

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